TIPS for a successful DATING
1. Without quality time,your dating will not survive. Carve out at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a mouth when the two of you can spend quality dating time exclusively together.
2. You will both need security and comfort of each other.A very good dating is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.
3. Keep your dependence and indie pendent balance.Tell and show your partner how much you need him,but don't cling,as that make your partner trapped.
4. Encourage him to listen to you, by showing appreciation when ever he does thing you like and by the same token,show interest when he talks to you.Be aware that most men aren't mentally programmed for conversation the way women are.They need more silence and internal time in dating.
5. Make him appreciate you,dont wait for a spontaneous compliment but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement.
6. Teach him perferably early in your dating, exactly how to give you a fail-safe orgasm because its unlikely hell find out alone. If you dont yet know yourself, find out.
7. Learn to do the one thing that is likely to restore good feeling in your dating-giving your partner a genuine, loving and approving smile
8. Often those subtle quirks that first attraction you to your partner can, with time, turn around and become toe curling annoying habits.Learn to love him,warts and all.
9. In dating hidden resentments poison it;so if something brothers you say it,remember that while men are wary of emotional conversations, they love to find solutions.Express your problem and ask him to help you find the answer.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
mistakes
10 Dangerous mistakes men make when dating
1. Being too much of a nice guy when dating.the woman mighty end up leaving you when you mistakenly let yourself go.Women actually feel attracted to men who are a little bit rough in any dating,you know.
2. Tying to convince her to like you.its simply a wrong thing to do when dating, if the sister say she doesn't like you,you don't have to force your self on her.Forget the saying when we tell you no,we mean yes;dating does work that way this days.
3. Looking to her for approval is wrong becomes you give her too much change to rule over your life. Soon she ll be tell you to take permission before going to pee.don't do that if you really want your dating to work
4. Tying to buy her affection with gifts and other stuff.Love isnt all about money and gifts guys.its all boil down to how much you care and how much time you willing to spend with her during your date.
5. Showing how you feel is to early in any dating.you should not take things too far cos if you do that women tend not to believe men who came unto them like that during first dates;simply irritating.
6. Not getting how attraction works for women.its not really about what you have;its the package you present to her.you need to know what makes a lady go nuts about men before going dating her. you might get cold shoulder.
7 Thinking all it takes is money and looks in dating.Same as what i just pointed out previously.
8. Giving away all your right to her when dating.
9. Not know exactly what to do in different situation when dating.
10. Not getting help from people when you are distrub about her attitude.
1. Being too much of a nice guy when dating.the woman mighty end up leaving you when you mistakenly let yourself go.Women actually feel attracted to men who are a little bit rough in any dating,you know.
2. Tying to convince her to like you.its simply a wrong thing to do when dating, if the sister say she doesn't like you,you don't have to force your self on her.Forget the saying when we tell you no,we mean yes;dating does work that way this days.
3. Looking to her for approval is wrong becomes you give her too much change to rule over your life. Soon she ll be tell you to take permission before going to pee.don't do that if you really want your dating to work
4. Tying to buy her affection with gifts and other stuff.Love isnt all about money and gifts guys.its all boil down to how much you care and how much time you willing to spend with her during your date.
5. Showing how you feel is to early in any dating.you should not take things too far cos if you do that women tend not to believe men who came unto them like that during first dates;simply irritating.
6. Not getting how attraction works for women.its not really about what you have;its the package you present to her.you need to know what makes a lady go nuts about men before going dating her. you might get cold shoulder.
7 Thinking all it takes is money and looks in dating.Same as what i just pointed out previously.
8. Giving away all your right to her when dating.
9. Not know exactly what to do in different situation when dating.
10. Not getting help from people when you are distrub about her attitude.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
IS IT RIGHT FOR MARRIED MEN TO KEEP UNMARRIED FRIENDS
A times their thing we get wrong,especially in African settings.We believe once we are married,we need to do away with our old or childhood friends who are still spinsters,no.The fact that we got married before them does not bring in discrimination. We definitely still be friends but the difference is that an end will come to some of those things we used to do when we spinster like them;roaming the street in search of fun.going for occasions, clubbing and all other single way of life.Our mentality will have to step a bit higher because we have responsibility than before.more so,some husband would expect their wife to more mature as a wife;believing they are fit in for one or two things.so that's no crime in have singles as friends, but to an extend of roaming about in the street looking for fun.The friendship is going to be just for communication,sharing ideas or seeking advise from us;not tell them the secret in your homes.All i need to know and do as far as i am concern is i wouldn't allow that effect my power of reasoning.Finally,sometime spinster need married men and women by their sides in other to be taught on how to build up their homes and handing marital issues.
A times their thing we get wrong,especially in African settings.We believe once we are married,we need to do away with our old or childhood friends who are still spinsters,no.The fact that we got married before them does not bring in discrimination. We definitely still be friends but the difference is that an end will come to some of those things we used to do when we spinster like them;roaming the street in search of fun.going for occasions, clubbing and all other single way of life.Our mentality will have to step a bit higher because we have responsibility than before.more so,some husband would expect their wife to more mature as a wife;believing they are fit in for one or two things.so that's no crime in have singles as friends, but to an extend of roaming about in the street looking for fun.The friendship is going to be just for communication,sharing ideas or seeking advise from us;not tell them the secret in your homes.All i need to know and do as far as i am concern is i wouldn't allow that effect my power of reasoning.Finally,sometime spinster need married men and women by their sides in other to be taught on how to build up their homes and handing marital issues.
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